Wednesday, July 29, 2009

On behalf of my wise mind,

I have been a friend, good or bad regardless, to many girls over so many years and I still cannot come to understand one thing.

Each time a girl approaches, pour out her whole heart to confide about her jerk of a boyfriend, it made me realize a golden trend transcending from each of them.

They blame every one in the world and every one, except for that one rotten person they call "boyfriend."

Do you even realize that the reason you're feeling all insecure, torn, challenged and broken for is because of the guy himself? Why do you always blame other people for what HE had done to you? Did/Do you even bother to listen to the other side of the story?

When your boyfriend cheats on you, you ONLY choose to blame the girl he's cheating with. I am sorry but this is where I go, wtf?

HAHA. Ok sorry.

Yes so wtf? Is it logical? No. Is it biased? Yes.

Ya I know you love your boyfriend so very much and yadayada oldgrandmudderstory but it takes TWO to tango. Not one. And you always blame one, which always happens to be the other girl.

Of course I'll understand if the girl is a sleazy and gatal nak mamps person but you still cannot put the blame on her alone. Whether you like it or not, he already cheated on you. Making yourself think that teaching the other girl a lesson will not change the fact that he already cheated on you. You ought to give your cheating boyfriend a tight slap in his face.

I would say punch till his nose bleeds purple blood but ok half of you will not even have the heart to lay your fingers on his dirty face. Sigh, the fragility of a female's heart.

So where was I? Yes. Inflict any kind of pain on him even if it's not effective. (Obviously it will not be effective.) Express yourself and show him that what he did was wrong. Period. Make him see that it's not okay and that he will not get away with it just because you hate the other girl more than you can ever hate him.

A wrong deed must be punished accordingly. I tell you, Singapore government will agree with me on this one.

So to put things shortly, you can blame the girl (if she already knows that your boyfriend is attached to you), of course you can, but remember to blame your stupid boyfriend too ok?

PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE.

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

I don't necessarily mean literally throwing your fist at him also lah. If you're smart and logical enough, you can say something that could bring his entire ego down. Something that equates to punching him in the face too.

Something like "I'm sorry you're not man enough."

Killer phrase that one. Maybe he'll pretend that he wasn't affected at all but trust me, that one liner alone could prick him to death.

It's irritating when I just can't shake and wake you girls up. Why blame every one else when the source of your problem is right in front of you.

2 comments:

s* said...

i give this post two thumbs up! muahahahahaha

Rasyidah said...

Graciaz!